Parent Child Relationship – Tips to Develop Healthy Bonding
October 18, 2020 |
| Parent-Child Relationship |
The parent-child relationship is one of the best and sweetest relationships in the world. The love of parents for their children is pure and selfless. On the other hand, a child's love for their parents has deep respect and gratitude. And the combination of all these things builds a strong relationship between the child and parents. And those relationships remain strong until death.
But these sweet relationships do not just become stronger, every parent has to work hard from birth to nurture their children and nurture them as followers of the right path.
Here are some simple habits that are the easiest and most effective way to strengthen the relationship between the child and its parents:
Eat together with them
In the midst of hundreds of activities, try to eat together with your children every day. If you can't in the morning, at least try to sit down to eat dinner together. One study found that eating food while the family was sitting together increased the positive attitude, strong mindset, improved behavior, social skills, and academic performance among the children.
Almost every kid has a little unwillingness to eat in childhood. So, try to feed them with everyone in the family. You will see that your baby will eat after seeing everyone eating. Because the children usually love to imitate. Also, you can feed your children with your own hands. No matter how big your child is, they love to eat food in the hands of their parents. This will make your relation with the child stronger. Selfless relationships will be stronger.
Almost every kid has a little unwillingness to eat in childhood. So, try to feed them with everyone in the family. You will see that your baby will eat after seeing everyone eating. Because the children usually love to imitate. Also, you can feed your children with your own hands. No matter how big your child is, they love to eat food in the hands of their parents. This will make your relation with the child stronger. Selfless relationships will be stronger.
Discuss daily activities
Build a relationship with your child the way that you can both talk and explain things to each other without hesitation. In this case, the best opportunity and time is to talk to them at dinner time or just before going to bed. Try to discuss your daily activities with your kids. For example, how many good things you have done today, what was your biggest achievement today, what problems did you face today, and how you solved those problems? Try to ask your child in the same way - how many good things he did today, how many bad things he did today, what was his best time of today, what problems he faced today, was he able to solve them? if not how to solve those problems etc.
In short, discuss these everyday details. Which will help to have a positive effect on your child. Every day they will learn something new from you little by little. Just like you, they will be able to build themselves up in the battle of life as the best soldier and your relationship with them will be firmly bound with respect and love.
In short, discuss these everyday details. Which will help to have a positive effect on your child. Every day they will learn something new from you little by little. Just like you, they will be able to build themselves up in the battle of life as the best soldier and your relationship with them will be firmly bound with respect and love.
Play with them
Another best way to strengthen a parent's relationship with their child is to spend time with them through entertainment. Play with them indoors or outdoors games as a means of entertainment and let them play with other children. Read books with them, draw pictures. Sit with them together and watch TV or anything they like to do.
In the midst of your busyness, spend at least one day in a week with them. By doing this they will slowly learn to adapt to the external environment and the time spent with them will transmit love to you which will play an important role in strengthening your relationship.
In the midst of your busyness, spend at least one day in a week with them. By doing this they will slowly learn to adapt to the external environment and the time spent with them will transmit love to you which will play an important role in strengthening your relationship.
Embrace them
The safest place for a child in the world is the mother's lap and the most courageous is when the father's hand is on the child's shoulder. So, hold your child in your arms lovingly, encourage them to move forward. Relationships with children should be such that they will not be afraid of coming to you. Build a friendly relationship with them. This will increase their respect for you and the relationship will be stronger.
Be respectful to them
A child gets their primary education from their parents. Parents are the first teachers of any child. So, you should try to listen to them and evaluate them. You will see that they will also listen to your words and will evaluate them. Treat the child as a person, not as a little kid. Give them a chance to talk, take each opinion seriously, and evaluate their likes and dislikes by understanding their thoughts from their point of view. By doing this your children will also understand that they are important to you and their opinions are also valuable. Which will help to increase your children's sense of responsibility towards the family and respect for others as well.
They might be a little irresponsible at first, it is not uncommon for them to make mistakes in any work. In this case, solve the problem without scolding them. Encourage them to try again. All of this will help them to develop respect and confidence in the relationship and to maintain a close relationship with their parents.
They might be a little irresponsible at first, it is not uncommon for them to make mistakes in any work. In this case, solve the problem without scolding them. Encourage them to try again. All of this will help them to develop respect and confidence in the relationship and to maintain a close relationship with their parents.
Let them do some work and try to help them in their work
Children are natural imitators. They like to do new things with interest and love to help others. So, teach them to work dependably from an early age. Encourage them to complete their own work. Such as, clean the toys at the end of the game, keeping the books on the bookshelf and notebooks on the reading table, schoolbags, tying shoelaces; Encourage their work from a young age. If they fail, teach them until they can do the work perfectly. Slowly they will make their work a habit. And one day they will become responsible and confident in any work on their own initiative. In this way, their love for the family will grow.
Try to show love every day with little things
There is no substitute for love to build a strong parental relationship with the child. Everything in this world is useless except love. Every child should be treated equally and it’s very important to show love to make the bond with the children stronger. Because they are small; They will not be able to appreciate your unexposed love. So, do something for your children every day so that they can know the depth of your love. Try to show them how much you love them, how important they are to you, by doing little things every day.
I’m not saying just to love them, because, in addition to loving your kids, the right level of governance is also important when it’s needed. But don't let it get to the point where your kids add you to their list of unkind people! If you ever get angry with them, try to control the anger and explain them in an understanding language. You can also surprise them with their favorite food or a gift. Pull them closer at important times and tell them how much you love them and how they should contribute to the family. Love must be expressed not only in works but also in words and behavior. This is how the relationship will become stronger.
If you can build a good relationship with your children by changing just a few habits, it will be much more valuable than money. Maybe none of us have any superpowers but who doesn’t want to be a super dad or super mom to their own child? Let's change yourself a little through some good habits and become known as an idol to your child! Introduce yourselves to your children as the best father or mother in the world!
I’m not saying just to love them, because, in addition to loving your kids, the right level of governance is also important when it’s needed. But don't let it get to the point where your kids add you to their list of unkind people! If you ever get angry with them, try to control the anger and explain them in an understanding language. You can also surprise them with their favorite food or a gift. Pull them closer at important times and tell them how much you love them and how they should contribute to the family. Love must be expressed not only in works but also in words and behavior. This is how the relationship will become stronger.
If you can build a good relationship with your children by changing just a few habits, it will be much more valuable than money. Maybe none of us have any superpowers but who doesn’t want to be a super dad or super mom to their own child? Let's change yourself a little through some good habits and become known as an idol to your child! Introduce yourselves to your children as the best father or mother in the world!
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ReplyDeleteNicely written, time spend with family is precious...
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