3 Questions That Will Change Your Life
September 23, 2020 |
| 3 Questions That Will Change Your Life |
We all do a lot of work every day until we wake up and go to bed at night. We all have plans for the future. And we are all addicted to one thing and that is called "success". Again, 80% of the world's "success plans" are just a dream. Because they just dream day and night without having any idea about who they are and the purpose of their life or what they want to do in their life. We need to know the answer to these questions at the beginning, which will help us to move forward on the path of dreams faster. Many may wonder what is the role of these questions in success in our life.
Well then, let's find out why it is so important to know the answers to these questions.
Knowing ourselves is not just what we should know, but it is also our responsibility. When a person doesn’t understand themselves, then how can he know about the world? Education begins with knowing ourselves. And whenever a person begins to know about himself, he also begins to understand his own importance. Educate yourself, change your brain to change your life. None of us are unimportant in this world. At the end of the day, people return to a family where he is a father, son, husband, or brother. So, you must learn to value yourself. And that learning begins with knowing yourself.
Isn't that really so? If I can't love myself, then why would anyone else love me? change your thoughts change your life. When a person, no matter what profession or position he is in, can love himself, with this others will also begin to look at you with respect. There are many people who are well established in society. But many of them fail miserably in their personal lives because they don’t understand their own worth.
If you don't understand who you really are, what your strengths and weaknesses are, then how can you move forward in the beautiful times of life! This is kind of like Walking like a blind man without knowing about the directions. But if you know where the destination is and what weapons you need to get there, then your success is sure.
So, promise today, you will put yourself first.
A little pen - it also has a purpose, as long as there is ink, it will be a writing tool. Then How can we the human being survive in this world without purpose? After realizing your own worth, the second question comes is what is the purpose of my precious life? What will be the reason why I will wake up every day and will start a new day? Why did I come to this world? There is no reason to think that everyone's answer will be the same. Your answer will be different than any other person and that is normal. We all are different, everyone's thoughts, attitudes, and positions in life are also different. So, it will be your job to find out exactly what is the purpose of your life?
In Ralph Waldo Emerson's words,
“The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have to make some difference that you have lived and lived well. "
You’re the only person who can decide what is good for you. So, find out now what you want to be from the bottom of your heart? What work gives you true joy and motivation to survive? Hopefully, you will find the purpose of your life. When you’re doing a job, if you love the purpose of that job then I’m sure you will feel satisfied and happy
3. What is the destination of your life?
Suppose you are sitting in a railway station. You have all the elements you need to survive; you are a healthy, strong, and passionate person. You want to travel with high energy. But you don't know which train to catch that will take you to your destination. If you can’t choose the train then the wrong train will take you to the wrong place. Since you don't know where to go, with all the preparation, what else you can do except sitting at the station in a bad mood?
It’s kind of the same as having no destination in life. Self-development, deciding the purpose of everything will be a waste if you didn’t have any destination in life. In every step of your life, you will stumble even after having everything.
Antonio Machado says,
"Travelers, there is no path, paths are made by walking."
Yes, that's right. Not everyone in life goes to the same destination. Everyone makes their own destination on the path of life. Successful peoples are in control of almost every moment of their life. Because they had a clear idea of their own destination. Therefore, knowing one's destination is an essential part of a successful life. There is no reason to think that success is just a straight line. Everyone's path to success is different. But the road has to be the same.
As Clayton M. Christensen says,
“There are direct paths to a successful career. But there are plenty of indirect paths, too."
Find out now what your path is. If you know which destination you are constantly moving forward, then the confidence to overcome all the possible difficulties of that path will also grow in you by itself.
In the end, it is true that our lives are different. Everyone's ability as a human being is also different. So, the answers will be different for everyone, this is the rule. But it is foolish to go ahead with life without knowing the answer to the above questions. There is no greater quality than knowing yourself. So, from now on, whatever job you want to be an expert in, find the answers to the questions and go ahead with the job of your choice.
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It's very good motivational post, I must say its helpful for one to stay positive in his life...
ReplyDeleteWhy do we exist?
ReplyDeleteThis question always haunts me.